When I started having kids I turned to social media for all my advice, mostly unknowingly. I looked to social media as an emotional outlet on rough days and found solace in other mothers who were also struggling. And for a while I found myself agreeing with the sentiments about motherhood being so difficult, so burdensome, and so unfulfilling. Especially in the moments and time of loneliness, depression, overwhelm, and sleep-deprivation I too believed lies about motherhood that aren’t true. I thought that I would be sacrificing myself, be so lost in motherhood that I would be a nobody. Here…